CommunicationThe power of speech is truly miraculous. A single word spoken may change lives. A sentence spoken may change philosophies. A speech spoken may change destiny. Indeed, the power of words cannot be lightly taken.
By facing issues together, hand in hand. To talk about what you're unhappy in a straightforward yet peaceful manner. Somehow, for me and Zelda, we always get stronger after we talk about what we don't like about each other. Like how come she's usually the one calling me and not the other way round (haha yes, my fault). Strange huh? But from the start, I guess we managed to get some kind of honest communication going between us, even for issues I guess most would feel uncomfortable to broach to your boy/girlfriend.
Well, I ain't no relationship guru, having only been in one to date (and happily immersed in it), but I have always found that in a relationship, not talking about issues is the number 1 way to spoil the relationship. No one is indeed perfect, and especially not in a relationship. Unhappy stuff will always happen, even though both parties may very much in love. But what really kills is when unhappiness builds up, without the correct avenue of release. The mature relationship should consist of a communicating couple, who are unafraid to let the other party in on his/her feelings, and unafraid to improve if the case for concern is valid. I mean, while relationships should be comfortable, shouldn't love mean that you would give your best to your significant other?
Thay been said, failed expectations should not lead to exasperation, but rather acceptance and a place for each other to improve. For us, so far its working. ^^ we understand each other better le, like what makes us down and stuff, and what we like for the other to do for us. Thats where communication helps.
Of course, its a never ending process. The pursuit of happiness. How true. Its indeed a never-ending chase for it. Working towards it!
I can see it in your eyes that you love me too. I don't want you to go. Want you to stay. Forever. Random BloggingIts intresting how I get into time when my mind is really a blank. I mean really. Think this post is gonna end up into a rambling of sorts, but i'll just push on and see where my free (but blank) mind leads me.
Anyways, I recently created my off/leave forecast! It was amazing how much joy 1 little spreadsheet brought me. Just looking at the little spots and stretches of leaves and off makes me feel like a happy ORDing NSF. Haha.. cheap thrill but it really felt really good. I spent a few minutes of self-indulgence showing it off to my SQN guys ^^ a little childish, but hey.. I was really happy!
Talking about work, I'm so glad with the period of respite thus far.. Its been pretty relaxed phase, so I'm pretty much able to concentrate on anything that is tasked to me. Maximum concentration = Maximum efficiency! Haha.. finished a whole report in 1 day! Mwahaha.. felt really zai!
Anyways, back to life. Liverpool won! The other British teams just faltered. ^^ jia you Liverpool! We can repeat again!
Also looking forward to the gathering with the RaDiCaLz on 21 Apr 07! They were my upper secondary classmates, and I haven't seen most of em for years! Really missed the times where we were really ROFL all the time. I hope lots of people go..
And everyone whom I know, I'm starting to plan a little on my 21st Birthday! No firm plans yet, but I'm looking at a mini beach party at Sentosa! Not sure if thats legal though ^^ haha.. maybe a mass BBQ? lol.. accepting ideas!!
Yup, back to work! Gotta present a lesson this sunday.. haha.. stress..
