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Wednesday, May 28, 2008 @ 11:46 PM
Biking
Biking

Okay.. this is yet another late post.. Haha.. Acted as a teacher for one very enthu girl with a lot of things she wanna accomplish for the summers. Learning to ride a bike! Lol but I must say, you did really well! Your teacher also proud of you! Haha.. Thats one task down! So the rest of them can later slowly clear la right?

It was a real pity that the rain came quite heavily so it dampened the day a little (and spoilt my hair). As she requested, no unglam pics! Haha! More tasks to come!



Shifu and disciple. Other fellow bikers were unfortunately not captured with the camera I had.

Monday, May 26, 2008 @ 11:15 PM
Misc Updates
Misc Updates

Once again, I've lapsed in updates due to a load of stuff, not all of them bad though. Discounting the fact that I was in school everyday, I think I had a lot of fun for the week. Its been busy, but at the same time, fulfilling and happy.

Project SOS is chugging along fine, I'm getting chances to meet people and friends, had loads of good food after my China trip and had the chance to cut my hair and swim! Ah.. simple life is still the best thing ever. I really can feel the difference between this period and the horror I went through in the early part of the year. The work is pretty much the same, its just that the situation is so much different.

Life has been picking up, and it does seem that a bit of sunshine is finally shining through the dark clouds. Sure, they are still there, and the forecast is still unknown, but a bit of sunshine is indeed better than none.

To all that I haven't met yet, hold on! I still wanna see you guys! Haha.. especially the gunners and the BP gang! Where are you all?

Friday, May 23, 2008 @ 12:34 AM
Glam Night @ Wild Rocket
Glam Night @ Wild Rocket

Its been a great day! As usual, the perfect combo that makes me happy. Good food and good company. The Wing's team headed down to Wild Rocket @ Mt Emily where we indulged ourselves in good food and trying to look as if it was a formal event with shirts and dresses. While the short burst of rain dampened the day a little, it could do nothing more but wet the ground a little as 8 excited people went into the restaurant.

The food was delicious! Totally fitting for its price and location. No regrets spending 50 bucks in total for a meal that consisted of Pan-Fried Catfish, Escargots, Salmon & Potato Mash and a nice tiramisu for dessert. Loads of other food filled the table and we shared all around. Bong gives this place a good 4.5 stars out of 5. Defintely worth bringing a date one day to just savor fine food and splurge a little.






Food glorious food!

After the sumptous feast, we headed to Harry's @ Dempsy for a quick chill-out session. Haha.. what else could be better than to end the day with some nice mocktails? Yum!

On a side note, the Summer on Sand '08 donation drive also started today. While I was not directly involved in the sale, I was running booth to booth checking to see if everything was alright. We did pretty well and I'm glad for the good performance put in by everyone. Lets go guys! We'll hit out target!

And to everyone else, haha.. be prepared, I'm gonna bug you soon!

Wednesday, May 21, 2008 @ 1:21 AM
Reunion + Birthday + Hike
Reunion + Birthday + Hike

Alrights, this is a pretty belated post for Monday, which also happens to be Vesak Day. On a horribly hot and humid day, me and Vanessa went to climb a hill in search of the place the Wing's Team was supposed to eat at: Wild Rocket @ Emily Hill. And find it we did, after a lot of walking in circles when we asked some guy that was recommending houses to a family.

Sweating like pigs and about to die, we realized we had passed right by it. That was cos:
1. It was closed for the day
2. It was in a hotel that was partially under renovation
3. It was way smaller than i imagined.

Nonetheless it looked like a real beautiful place, and the aircon was fantabulous. We just flopped into a couch and took in the cool aircon till we pretty much just wanted to sleep till the security guard started hinting that we had to leave. Lol. Sweet respite.

Anyways went down to Rail Mall after that to meet some of the youths and Sis Anna who had just returned. Ate some chinese fare (Fishball Noodles and the such) then we headed to her in-law's home to kinda celebrate Eudora's belated bdae. Haa.. dun think we really managed to suprise her but oh well..

Birthday Girl lol

We had quite a nice time.. its really good to be back in S'pore.. haha.. indeed its where I belong.

Thursday, May 15, 2008 @ 8:54 PM
Life
Life

Its funny how life teaches us lessons over and over again. And yet, somehow, it just doesn't stay with us long enough to have a lasting impact on our lives. Like say the recent quake in China that took the lives of countless people. And here we were traveling down the road to Kunming Airport at the time the quake hit. 15 oblivious souls, protected by the sheer size of China that we didn't feel a thing. Or on hindsight, maybe the bus was too bumpy for us to even notice (I was sleeping!)

Or like how another of my friend's parent passed away just yesterday from probably a heart attack. In a span of time probably not more than 5 minutes her mom's life was snatched away. Its heart-wenching when I think of how lives can be extinguished so easily. At least I'm happy that at least she seems ok.

What is life to us who are living? Do we cherish it enough to even care about how we are living it? Indeed, I'm not the best example by far. But it makes me wonder: if I had a choice, how would I be living it. And we all have a choice. Singaporeans are probably one of the least bounded people in terms of how they live their lives. Money is often not a big worry. Other than that, the only other thing that demands our time would be school or work. Even these can be chosen. So what then constitutes the best choices?

I wish I could answer. But I suppose the best choice so far that I have made was to follow Christ. Within the principles of the Bible are probably the guidelines of the best possible choices that one could ever make in his or her life.

Yet the decision is up to us.

If I had to rate how happy I was I'd humbly put in a 60%. Pretty much enough to keep me going each day and enough of a buffer to see me through tough times. But yet its far from what I think would be a more holistic life that I really want to lead.

When can I attain that? Perhaps never.

Its nice to live each day with a smile, whether its a facade or not. I remember Dong Gu (China) asking why I keep smiling. To which I would answer: Cos not smiling would make things so much worse. And unconsciously, smiling does help you and people around you feel better. A smile brightens up anyone's day, so smile more.

Wednesday, May 14, 2008 @ 11:40 PM
Lovely Singapore
Lovely Singapore

And so Bong tries his best to re-integrate into the Singapore culture than to go out and have some fun?

Haa.. went out to Marina Square and ate Coffee Club and MOF! Haha.. nothing better than good food! Not to mention good company (Thanks Van! Hope you had fun too!) Sigh, Singapore shopping and food is just so much better. I love Singapore! Serious! Other than the irritating stuff that comes with the horribly hectic lifestyle, its a really nice place la..

Gymmed today and boy am I lazy.. sigh.. need to work out!

Tuesday, May 13, 2008 @ 8:10 AM
Back!
Back!

And I'm back! Its been awhile and I must say I'm truly happy to be back again! So many things I missed back here in Singapore, yet many many more things that I'm gonna miss back there in Lijiang and Dali. Its been a really fun trip, and though to some extent things may have been much much better, I have really learnt a whole lot within the few days that I was in China.

Things are indeed different, from simple things like food and culture, to deeper things to the way they do business, how "guan xi" or relationships really matter in this place. Whatever that we thought would definately work back in Singapore, somehow had reduced effect in this place. Indeed, the tourist dollar was a more important prey, and local spending was extremely elusive.

I will miss the horse-riding trips we had, trotting over beautiful landscape that can never ever be seen in Singapore. Vast mountains, waters, plains. The work of God at its best. Indeed, the wind in the face and the harmonic (and usually painful) motion of my body moving as the horse gallops was an exhilarating feeling that I really want to experience again.

The culture of the minority groups were also extremely interesting. The Bai Tribe has the man marrying into the family, while the Naxi Tribe has men that mainly relax all day while the women toil in the sun. In fact, the women have to carry the men in baskets on their back before dropping them off when they go shopping. Another tribe has the culture of no marriages. Procreation results from next to random intimate encounters that last till the next morning. Weird yet ultimately enthralling.

Nothing ancient or old-fashion, everything was fresh in my perspective. An eye-opener indeed, And as I finally take a short break before starting my engines again, I think of the life here in Singapore and compare it. Its a trade-off indeed, and while I would not mind staying another week or so in that beautiful place, its here where I belong, with family and friends.

Really missed you guys. Can't wait to see you all again!

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Thursday, May 08, 2008 @ 11:48 AM
Wings Update
Wings Updates

Whew! Finally got a bit of free time to really sit down and blog! Well, we've spent a great deal of time in Dali Gucheng and I must say its been a really exciting and fun experience. The environment is totally unlike Singapore. Its pretty much more relaxed, even despite the horrible load of humans that walk the streets. To say the truth, I wouldnt mind living here a little longer. Haha.. but I do miss you guys back at home too! Just a few more days and I'll be back!

Food here has been ok, though some of the team members have a little problems adjusting to the extra oily, extra spicy and extra salty "Bai Tribe" food. Personally, I thought the food is pretty ok, though I wouldn't want to eat it everyday either. I'm not gaining weight though! Haha.. just weighed myself today and I'm still hovering at 60 haha..

Business and Marketing has met with mixed success, but I'm still happy with the work we've done here. More could have been done of course, but certain factors have come in between our goals and plans. Nonetheless, I'm having lots of fun each day, and I'm adjusting well to the place here.

Yup, still got work to do.. won't blog more! Gonna leave for Li Jiang in a few more days!

Till then, take care guys! Can't wait to see all you guys again. Hope exams have been good! Gonna swim and gym again when I get back as well!

My head's still not clear enough..

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